Quick Results

Some people find a quick shift in their confidence and are attracting higher quality men.  The women I’ve worked with have experienced fast results when they practice and apply the techniques I teach. It depends on how quickly you incorporate the techniques that you’re taught.  You can expect to work through your blocks. At the end of my program you’ll feel more confident and empowered.

Attract Higher Quality Men

If you show up as your empowered self and you’ll attract higher quality men. Do all of your homework. Be totally committed to your success.  Understand that this is a process, a proven one, that works if you take action and implement all of the steps. My clients who have diligently applied every step of the Find Real Love After 40, 90-Day Program have successfully increased their confidence, released old dating patterns and are attracting higher quality and are developing loving and supportive partnerships.

Find your Soul Mate

My client’s will tell me “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!”  Consider what you’ll be doing with me a crash course on everything you need to know to attract higher quality men and eventually your soulmate.  You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. No excuses anymore, just a very different way of thinking and full support while you achieve this incredibly exciting goal of attracting your soulmate.

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What exactly is Find Real Love After 40, this is a 90-Day system and what does it include?

  1. Set your intention - We examine your previous dating patterns and identify where you could use more support.  We’ll look at your patterns of attraction and how your subconscious is leading you to repeat the same patterns over and over again.
  2. Release your Inner Resistance - You’ll be taught how to stop blaming others for your situation and finding excuses for why you haven’t met your soulmate.  You’ll finally be able to let go of old habits and dating patterns that no longer serve you. You’ll be taught new ways of responding when you feel triggered
  3. Design the Life You Love – Together we’ll design your self-care program and will uncover hobbies and interests that give you joy.  We’ll create a schedule that incorporates “Me time” and allows you to fill your tank with positive and joyful experiences.
  4. Create your Non-Negotiables – We’ll come up with the qualities that are most important to you and why?  We’ll do a deep dive into the type of men you’ve previously dated and why you were attracted to them.
  5. Skyrocket your self-confidence – You’ll be taught various techniques including affirmations that will boost your dating confidence and move you out of your existing rut.
  6. Develop Your Dating Plan – We’ll devise a personalized dating plan so you can go and begin to date.  We’ll discuss strategies for on-line dating and other venues where you can meet high quality men. We’ll develop of list of supportive people in your life who can assist you in finding “the one”.  We’ll also work on ways to establish boundaries with family and friends who may intentionally or unintentionally want to sabotage your efforts
  7. Dating Multiple Men – We’ll focus on getting you out and dating a few men at a time.  You’ll learn how to take your time and not focus all of your energy on one man. This allows you to really get to know someone prior to making a commitment.  This is turn will put you in the driver's seat of your dating life and you’ll feel more confident and in charge of who you’re spending your time with.
  8. Focus In – We’ll track what’s working and celebrate any successes.  You’ll be taught how to quickly overcome feelings of rejection and disappointment and how to make dating a priority even when your life is already full with many other obligations.
  9. Next Steps – Once you’ve dated one man for awhile and you’re interested in getting to know him better you’ll be educated on ways to get a high quality man to commit to you and you’ll learn the skills of successful couples.

What Results Can I Expect?

  • Have big breakthroughs and ah ha moments
  • Create new standards for yourself
  • Feel empowered and excited about the future
  • Fall back in love with yourself
  • Develop more compassion for yourself and others
  • Be clear and concise in your communication
  • Create healthy boundaries
  • Learn how to say No and honor your yes and no’s
  • Connect with your intuition
  • Create deep intimacy and meaning in your personal relationships
  • Raise your self-esteem and self-confidence
  • Rewrite your story
  • Establish more effective communication tools
  • Recover more quickly from heartbreak and disappointment
  • Learn proven techniques for releasing your internal resistance and self-sabotaging tendencies so you can take action and attract the man of your dreams
  • Stay accountable to your dating plan so you can achieve your goal.
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I help smart, accomplished women over 40 find love.  My plan will help you gain clarity and confidence you need to get out there and start dating,  you’ll learn to enjoy meeting and dating different men and you’ll meet and connect with good men.

If you’re feeling like your life should include a deep meaningful relationship but it’s out of reach, if you’ve been looking but never been able to find it… my program is for you.